If you're like me, you have some kind of issue with anger. Whether it's getting angry too easily, or not being able to control your anger. No one likes to be angry. But instead of holding a grudge or feeling sorry for your self why don't you use exert that energy into something useful and
productive?
Let me give you an example... When it comes to my fitness and health I get a lot of people trying to discourage me. You would think others would be happy for me that I'm trying to improve my self, but it's the exact opposite. No one wants to see you succeed because that means their falling behind. But instead of crying in the corner about it and never working out again, I use that to motivate me even more. Because those people want me to fail, so I do exactly what they don't want me to do! It's the same principle as making your enemies your friends. They won't know what hit them!
This can be done with anything, not just fitness. If you're a writer or a poet, use that anger and turn it into a great story or a beautiful poem. Or if you work at McDonald's or something, and your friends just think of it as a dead beat job. Well, work hard and show your boss you're ready for a raise. Or, use that as determination to seek out a better job.
Failure has nothing to do with other people. The only one who is affected by your failure is you. Even if others are disappointed you failed or even expected you to fail. They won't have to live with it.
Take what ever it is that infuriates you and use it to succeed! And nothing pisses off the people who wanted you to fail more than your success!
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